A Wandering Mind Isn't All Bad: 6 Ways to Make Head-in-the-Cloud Moments Meaningful
May 28, 2018
Where is your attention right now?
Not exactly right here?
If not, you're far from alone—humans are thought to spend many of our waking hours not in the present moment. What’s more, we are rarely even aware of the fact that our minds have wandered, whether it's over to that to-do list, yesterday's mishap, tomorrow's meeting—to anything, really.
Past studies have suggested that mind-wandering has negative effects on our mood and even our physical health. In a recently published study in the Journal of Positive Psychology, my colleagues and I sought to understand whether mind-wandering also makes us less caring—and what we can do about it.
The Perks of Mind-Wandering
We recruited 51 adults and pinged them twice a day for nine weeks while they were enrolled in a compassion cultivation training course.
We were interested in a few things: First, we wanted to find out how much people’s minds were wandering, and to what types of things (pleasant, neutral, or unpleasant topics). Because participants were enrolled in the compassion meditation course, we wanted to find out (on a given day) whether they had completed any formal compassion meditation practices and whether they had engaged in a kind, caring, or helpful behavior toward themselves or someone else.
Caring behaviors toward themselves might include asking for help, taking care of their body (with sleep, diet, or exercise), engaging in nourishing, soothing activities (e.g., cooking, gardening, taking a bath, massage). Caring behaviors toward others might include letting someone go ahead of them at the checkout, smiling at a stranger, picking up a piece of trash in the street, or mindfully listening to a friend.
Our findings showed that a wandering mind can be less caring. Specifically, mind-wandering to unpleasant or neutral topics (rather than pleasant topics) predicted less caring behavior toward oneself and others on a given day.
Meanwhile, mind-wandering to pleasant topics actually predicted more caring behavior toward oneself and others.
Mind-wandering to pleasant topics actually predicted more caring behavior toward oneself and others.
Given prior research suggesting that when our minds wander we’re unhappy, it’s possible that mind-wandering to negative events produces negative emotions that narrow our attention and lead us to miss opportunities for caring.
In contrast, when our minds wander to positive events, we may experience positive feelings that broaden our attention and allow us to more fully engage in the present moment and the potential for caring.
Past research is a bit mixed on whether people are actually happier when thinking about pleasant topics rather than engaging in the present, so additional studies are needed to explicitly investigate this.
When our minds wander to positive events, we may experience positive feelings that allow us to more fully engage in the present moment.
Fortunately, our research suggests that training in compassion may be able to alter the habitual patterns of mind-wandering.
When participants reported engaging in compassion meditation practices on a given day, they also reported less mind-wandering to unpleasant topics and more mind-wandering to pleasant topics. What this means: A regular compassion practice may have the dual effect of increasing and decreasing different types of mind-wandering.
How to Wander Wisely
If you find that your mind often drifts to negative topics, consider trying some exercises and meditations that are part of the compassion cultivation training program:
1. Settling and Focusing the Mind
When you notice that your attention has wandered, gently bring it back to your breath.
2. Lovingkindness and Compassion for a Loved One
Bring to mind a loved one and wish them well. Think about a time when this person was experiencing difficulties and wish them well.
3. Lovingkindness and Compassion for Oneself
Bring to mind an image of yourself and wish yourself well. Think about a time when you were experiencing some difficulties and wish yourself well.
4. Embracing Common Humanity
Call to mind three different people in your life: someone whom you’re close to, a neutral person, and someone with whom you’ve had some difficulties. Think about how all of these people share a basic yearning to be happy and free from suffering; in this respect, all of these people are the same.
5. Compassion for Others
Expand your scope of awareness to include people living in your neighborhood, city, state, country, continent, and so forth. Reflect on how just as you wish to be happy and free from suffering, so do they. In this respect, we are all connected.
6. Active Compassion
When breathing in, imagine taking away the pain and suffering of others; when breathing out, imagine sending out happiness and good fortune.
While mind-wandering has received a lot of criticism, the story may be a bit more nuanced—perhaps not all mind-wandering is bad. One thing seems to be clear, though: We can train our minds to intentionally shift how often and where our minds wander, and this may be part of becoming a more compassionate and caring person for the benefit of ourselves and others.
A version of this article originally appeared on Greater Good, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.